Jania Meshell Opens Up About Motherhood While Shutting Down Dejounte Murray’s Claims About Her Prioritizing Club Life
Written by 96motero on November 4, 2025
Looks like Jania Meshell has had enough! She’s taking the time to not only clap back at her now ex, Dejounte Murray, but also at the critics who had plenty to say about their relationship
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Jania Meshell Responds To Dejounte Murray’s Claims
After Dejounte Murray accused her of prioritizing the club life over their relationship, Jania Meshell responded on Instagram, calling out his double standards and emotional neglect. She said it was unfair for him to criticize her when “it was ok for you to move to Vegas from April to September and have me and my kids on a plane every weekend just to visit you.”
The influencer opened up about how the situation affected her mental health, thanking her grandmother for stepping in to help. She also addressed his parenting remarks, saying she was the one caring for both kids most of the time, “When have you ever had Ice by yourself? So please don’t talk about parenting.”
Jania added that she “literally cried at dinner telling you how I felt, and did you care? No,” even calling him a narcissist. Despite everything, she reminded him that she supported him “at every game and event” and that she “actually loved” him, though she admitted, “when I was pregnant and after, I felt like you didn’t like me and you proved it.”
Jania Claps Back At Critics On X
While continuing to get her frustrations out about the relationship, Jania also took to X to clap back at critics who shared their opinions on her situation with Dejounte. She tweeted, “Y’all say, ‘Oh, he needs a girl like this and like that.’ GOOD! PLEASE send people his way, go for it. I hope it fulfills all your dreams.”
Jania went on to defend herself against claims that she’s always out partying, writing, “Mind you, I’ve only been out six times this year with my friends,” adding, “Any other time, I’m with my family, chilling in the house, so idk who said I be out ALL THE TIME, but that’s a lie.” She continued in a series of more clapbacks, telling critics they couldn’t tell her about a man she had a child with and calling it sad to see so many people more concerned about money than what she went through.
Social Media Weighs In
Folks gathered under The Shade Room’s post reacting to Jania’s side of the situation. Many mothers empathized with her, saying she deserves time for herself. Others criticized her, claiming she shouldn’t have lied. Some suggested she find hobbies outside of going to the club.
Instagram user @helgamolina wrote, “365 days in a year she goes out 6 and it’s a big deal. God forbid a girl wana have fun and a life outside of her man”.
Instagram user @ms.un_apolo_getic_ added, “She’s young with 2 small kids having fun with her friends sometimes is needed ! No harm done!”
While Instagram user @mac_mustang_ wrote, “Postpartum is real. Prayers up”
Instagram user @muliaa.marie wrote, “lon think her going it was the problem. She lied about why she was going to Houston that’s the real problem”
Instagram user @flysolo1995 added, “Why do some women see the club as the only thing ‘fun’? If she so locked up in the house and need fun why she ain’t on the beach or pursuing other hobbies. She rich af, there’s literally a hundred other things she can do for ‘fun’ than be in the club”
While Instagram user @poeticallyspeaking88 wrote, “They both right and wrong, if that makes sense.”
Instagram user @royalrainnnn wrote, “Jania have a point but she’s going at it the wrong way.. when somebody scoop him up the hurt is gone hurt baby he’s a good man just have to love him In a different way”
Instagram user @theonlyjae_ added, “Just because you a parent, don’t mean you can’t have any fun men wanna make you their slave not partner”
While Instagram user @lethalshooter wrote, “All the sh** going on! Why as ADULTS do we give a fuck about this!? That’s their relationship. Good luck”
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