Jania Meshell Gets Real About Co-Parenting With Her Kids’ Fathers & Spotting Red Flags In Relationships (VIDEOS)
Written by 96motero on November 9, 2025
When it comes to speaking her truth, Jania Meshell never holds back. The social media star recently sat down for a new YouTube Q&A where she got real about love, independence, and what she’s no longer willing to tolerate. And let’s just say, she had a lot to get off her chest.
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Jania Gets Real About Dejounte Murray & Their Relationship History
Jania Meshell got real about her past relationship with Dejounte Murray, revealing that she often felt like she had to “dull” herself to make things work. The influencer admitted that because of her outgoing personality and his quieter nature, people on the outside didn’t always think they were a good match — though she reminded fans that what they see online doesn’t always reflect who someone truly is behind closed doors.
She went on to share how dating someone with money “shifted” her mindset, making her realize the importance of staying independent and maintaining her own identity. Additionally, Jania opened up about her pattern of getting into relationships and only focusing on her career again once things ended. But this time around, she wants to always have her own thing going and continue making moves for herself.
Jania Talks Co-Parenting With NBA YoungBoy & Red Flags
Jania also opened up about co-parenting with NBA YoungBoy, saying their routine is surprisingly simple and drama-free. YoungBoy simply reaches out when he wants to spend time with Kacey, handles the pickup, and later brings their son back home. When it comes to dating again, though, Jania said the biggest red flag she’ll never overlook is “control.” She explained that growing up without a father made her once confuse control with care, but now she knows the difference. And, she’s focused on keeping her peace, her freedom, and her independence.
The TL Sound Off On Jania’s Grown Woman Moves
The Shade Room comment section wasted no time chiming in after Jania’s video dropped. Some people questioned why her love life keeps becoming a public topic. Others came to her defense, praising her growth and maturity, while a few reminded everyone that Jania is grown, successful, and free to move how she wants.
One Instagram user @mswhootyboo said, “She’s grown up so much. I love this for her.“
This Instagram user @kimorarb added, “She’s young, not married so if she wants to hang out with her friends, she can do that“
And, Instagram user @shesb0mb_ shared, “The ones that get it, get it! Love this for her ❤️👏”
Meanwhile, Instagram user @itisdes wrote, “why do we care about this? is this really our business???“
While Instagram user @tyshema15 commented, “Maturing is realizing that’s she is ✅️”
Finally, Instagram user @1greedyass_dolla said, “Just say you wasn’t ready to be a wife 😂😂😂😂”
She Already Set The Record Straight On Dejounte Murray
It looks like things between Jania Meshell and Dejounte Murray just got real messy online. After the NBA star accused her of choosing the club life over their relationship, Jania hopped on Instagram to set the record straight. She called out what she described as double standards and emotional neglect, saying it was unfair for him to complain when she and her kids were flying out every weekend to visit him in Vegas for months.
Jania opened up about how the situation took a toll on her mental health, thanking her grandmother for stepping in to help when things got rough. She also clapped back at his parenting comments, claiming she’s the one who handles most of the childcare, saying, “When have you ever had Ice by yourself?” The influencer went on to say she “literally cried at dinner” trying to communicate her feelings but felt ignored, even calling him a narcissist. Despite all the drama, Jania ended her post on a bittersweet note, reminding him that she supported him through everything — but admitted that during her pregnancy and after, “you proved you didn’t like me.”
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