Yikes! Jennifer Lopez’s Ex-Hubby Ojani Noa Spills Tea On Alleged Past Cheating After She Says She’s “Never Been Loved” (VIDEO)
Written by 96motero on October 19, 2025
Jennifer Lopez is back in the headlines — and this time, it’s not about her music or the red carpet. After a candid sit‑down with Howard Stern where she confessed she’s never “truly been loved,” the internet didn’t hold back. And now her first husband, Ojani Noa, is responding to the claims.
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Ojani Noa Peeped Jennifer Lopez’s Interview & Grabbed The Mic Quick
During her recent radio interview, Jennifer Lopez revealed that despite all the rings, the houses, and the spotlight, she felt her exes simply weren’t “capable” of loving her properly, adding that “it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable.” That sentiment struck a chord — especially for Ojani Noa, who took to Instagram to accuse her of lying about their marriage. He claimed he was faithful and supportive, but Lopez prioritized fame over loyalty, and outright called her the problem: “Tell the truth for once…you are the problem.”
“I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never [misbehaved] never cheated on you,” Ojani shared. “I was good to you. I’m too good of a [man] for you.” He added, “But you. You chose fame and fortune moving apart of our relationship. You decided to lie, to cheat on me and even though I stayed. I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press caring more about you.” Ojani continued, “You wanted to continue cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constantly lying…That’s why I left you. That’s why I divorced you.”
The Internet DIdn’t Hold Back On This One!
As soon as Ojani’s posts dropped, The Shade Room, the comment section lit up. Some fans said Jennifer BEEN giving “I’m the problem,” while others felt Ojani might still be bitter 25 years later.
One Instagram user @sherockjz said, “That man basically told her to take ‘ACCOUNTABILITY’“
This Instagram user @dakeyofdee shared, “He gotta be pissed & typing fast. So many misspelled words!!! We know what you meant bro!“
And, Instagram user @ineedbarbie wrote, “This man was really hurt and u can tell through his writing”
Then Instagram user @kandise_denise added, “I hate when women force me to side with the man. I believe him! ”
Meanwhile, Instagram user @venom_atl said, “He said Jenny is FOR the block.“
While Instagram user @rai.iin1 commented, “Why I read with a Spanish accent ”
Instagram user @pressandthecity added, “He sounds like he’s still bitter.“
Lastly, Instagram user @katching.flights wrote, “women in men’s field – love it“
What Did J.Lo Say To Set It Off?
Jennifer Lopez done stirred the pot and didn’t even flinch while doing it. During a recent sit-down on ‘The Howard Stern Show,’ Jenny from the block kept it all the way real when asked if she’s ever truly been loved — and her answer? “No.” She didn’t call out names, but after walking us down memory lane, J.Lo made it clear she thinks the issue wasn’t her being unlovable, but that her exes were simply “not capable.” Let’s not forget — the internet was already in shambles when J.Lo filed for divorce from Ben just last year, after what looked like a fairytale reconnection and a second chance at happily ever after.
@theshaderoom Whew! During an interview with Howard Stern, Jennifer Lopez got transparent about her love life. She mentioned that she doesn’t feel she has truly been loved, not because she’s unlovable but because her partners are incapable. Thoughts, Roomies? #fyp (
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